"Re: My Bad Experience with DCP West Australia"
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- Category: Western Australia DCP
- Created: Monday, 25 June 2012 23:30
- Written by Schnapps
The maggots at this department are off their friggin trees. They are targeting me & my husband for "Emotional trauma, neglect & abuse" because as far as they are concerned, we failed as parents for "not" following through in counselling after my daughter, some years ago, made allegations of sexual abuse by a boy up the road. I tried to present them with the FACTS & this one woman (I forget her name, but we refer to her as The Demon) kept cutting me off & talking over top of me. NOTE ; where you see *other state* or similar, this refers to things/issues or docs in another state that I wont disclose knowing that the tossers troll these forums....
Here are ALL the facts, that my husband (as they totally crucified me & wouldn't let me speak) was able to put across, but they are totally ignoring.
1: My daughter has an extensive history of not only lying about almost everything (she is almost 15 & still does it), even small things that dont need to be lied about, but has repeatedly made NUMEROUS allegations about this type of stuff (being stalked, molested, raped, felt up...everything you can think of) against NUMEROUS different people.
2: She has told many many different versions of the allegations that dcp are using against us, not only to me, but also the school & *other state dept* DCS.....almost all the versions are recorded.
3: We sent her to a youth counselling service. I talked with her about why she had to go. That no matter what she had to talk to these people about what had happened to her & that it's a good thing (counselling), becasue I was unable to do for her what they could. She came out of that appointment with her arm wrapped around the counsellor & he said "She's fine mum, she just wants to spend more one-on-one time with you". I asked if she had talked about things that happened to her, he said "Nope. I don't believe there is an issue with what you sent her here for, she just wants more 'fun time' with her mum". So we left & my husband & I were left feeling a little bemused.
4: At the time of this allegation, BOTH police & *the other state* DCS were involved. We informed the school & docs of the outcome of the counselling session. Now here's an interesting point...THE POLICE NEVER FOLLOWED ANYTHING UP CONCERNING THE ALLEGATIONS (probably because they didnt know which version to run with?? maybe) & DOCS NEVER FOLLOWED UP ON OUR DAUGHTER, US, OR WITH ANY FURTHER REQUESTS OF COUNSELLING!!!! (what does that tell you??)
5: We, a couple of years later & with many "strange" behavioural issues concerning our daughter & also after many of the people in our 'circle' mentioning her strange oddeties started to think that thay may be something more sinister was at play, so to speak. We considered the possibility of mental illness & arranged ANOTHER appointment at a youth counselling centre but specifically targeted for a referal to a specialist. 5min after my daughter went into the room I recieved a phone call to have a "chat" with the lady my daughter saw. I went in, sent my girl to the car with my husband. As soon as my daughter was out of the building, the woman said "I have no idea how you have managed to live with her if she's like that often!" When I asked why, she stated that my daughter had let loose one of the worst tirades of verbal abuse, (all she had said is hello & her name) she had encountered in her job & then stated that she was writting up an immediate referal to a specialist at the local hospital. I asked if I could take it to the *state* mental health society, she said that I could. So we did. Twice we saw them & twice we were told "She's normal, she's a sweety. You just have to deal with her normal tween behaviour. She will grow out of it".We stated that we weren't ok with that & tried to point out the things of concern, not just from our point of view, but from the point of view of every other adult, young & old, in her life. Again we were told "Normal. Good bye" (I have since been told that this standard practice & that specific centre in, they "prefer" the kids that try to harm animals or try to burn down buildings...???!!!). Deflated, we thaught we could do no more. We attempted, yet again, to get her into some form of counselling probably a year later after her behaviours had worsened. We also tried Family Counselling. Our daughter refused, even when I said I would pay her to just sit there.....She out right refused. There was nothing we could do. No way we could actually "force" her.
Now, these are the FACTS that are not only RECORDED or DOCUMENTED, but that I tried to point out when we had a meeting at their cave & they CHOSE to IGNORE!!!. The demon woman actually screamed over the top of me & consistently cut me off. I can't help but wonder if she treated me so harshly knowing that I have a mental illness (that I controll by attending my REGULAR psychological appointments & medication) to get me to fire up at her. It worked, because the first instance I made a comment that was nothing bad or negative in the slightest, she snapped & snarled her trap at me in a very nasty & drogative manner (we had a 3rd party present who confirmed that demon woman was completely rude & horrible toward me at all times), I replied with "Are you ****ing kidding me?" (refering to her demeanor & attitude....immature maggot that it is!) & then stood up & said I was having a time out other wise I was gonna be of no use in there. I walked out came back 5min later & she was 10x worse! The guy at the meeting (again, im bad with names) in the cave stated that I clearly have impulse issues to which I replied "No, I don't think I do. If had acted on my initail impulse, I would have thrown a chair at someone's (pointing at demon woman) head. Instead I took a time out"...(Positive reaction that I have learned thanks to my psych!!!) demon woman may or may not have heared this as she was talking to the case manager. From then on, demon woman talked over me, cut me off & verbally bashed me every single time I tried to speak. In the end, I was reduced to a blubbering mess & just sat silent & crying, refusing to speak because of the verbal abuse that would be dished out to me. All 3 of them at some point ripped shit through me. Both my husband & the 3rd party present felt that I was treated VERY un-fairly.
Now, here's something REALLY screwed up....My child, at my request, is temporarily staying with a friend, dcp agreed to this arrangement as they stated that they "Do not want to take legal control of the child". My friend has agreed that as well as normal counselling, she would like a proper assesment for mental illness....the same thing all of us that know & love the girl want. DCP have instructed this friend that she is NOT allowed to get her ANY counselling appointments, NOT allowed to even take her to a gp & NOT allowed to take her to a psycologist!!!! Are they on freakin crack? Remember they are accusing ME of emotional damage, neglect & abuse, because as far as they are concerned all that I had TRIED to do for her in that regard fell through or got shut down in some way, shape or form!! I am going to call legal aid & seek advice as to if I can arrange the necessary appointments.....It is in my daughters BEST interests that I try AGAIN. Can they stop me? They stated that they dont have NOR do they want to assume "ownership" so to speak....that means that legally I am still in controll, doesn't it? I will always do what is best for my child, even though these two-faced, back-stabbing, hypocritical MORONS are trying to state otherwise. She at the very least needs counselling, as do my husband & I, in order for her to come back home, where she belongs. She is extremely violent which is why she has been sent off (again, AT MY REQUEST & SAY SO), so that she can get on top of that without being near us & constantly getting violent just to get her own way. Should she be here, she wont follow through on anything we put to her. She has, however agreed to do it whilst she stay at my friends. They (the demons from hell) did not send her away...WE the parents did! Not that satans minions give a shit....as far as they are concerned, & I QUOTE : "You failed to help her in the ways she needed it. You were neglectful & you have commited emotional abuse & harm in diong so" WTF???? I am so furious. They are the biggest bunch of useless F***WITS I have EVER encountered in my whole life. Something needs to be done about how they "do business". But I doubt that we, the REAL VICTIMS, have a leg to stand on. As far as the government is concerned, we are bad parents (???) simply because they say so....how is that even fair? God I'm angry, but seeing that I'm not their only victim has helped....even if only a tiny bit.
